The Power Of Choice
Do
you believe in destiny? If yes, then what about your choice and decision? Which
do you prefer to believe? Your destiny or your choice? How could we know if we
have correct choice?
We
are in a place with lots of possibilities that change the direction of our
lives using the most powerful tool we have. It opens a different doors with
different outcomes and we are the one who is responsible for opening the doors
with the key that we called choice.
Choice
has something to do with our decision. Decisions define destiny because life is
not a matter of chance but a matter of choice. In our lives, we are encountering
different scenarios with lots of choices. It is hard to choose especially if
your future depends on it. But whatever happens, we ended up on making our own
decision. Sometimes, we fail and sometimes we are proud. What you decide is
your choice and what you choose is your destination.
Let
me tell you a story about making a choice. When I was seven years old, I want
to be a teacher but when I reached the
age of ten, I realized that I wanted to become a chef. Then after graduating
elementary, I wanted to become a flight attendant then, all of a sudden, I became
an ABM student who wants to be a certified public accountant even I do not have
any interest in accounting. After filling out the form given to me, I found
myself asking, “Why I wrote ABM as my chosen track? Why not Tourism since I
really want it?”. What I am trying to explain is, we can only choose one. And
that one will define what will you be in the future. What if I choose to have
Education as a course? Will I experience the same level of difficulties? If I
choose to be a Tourism student, will I experience the real happiness that I really
want? And the answer is, “I will never know”. Because this is what I have
chosen and there is no way I can go back in the past. All I can do is, try all
of my options and move to the future to choose the best life
that I can have.
Every
happenings in our lives are our decisions and choices. Waking up early in the
morning, what kind of food will you eat and even the dress you were wearing. It
is all your choice. We should not believe the saying, “If it is meant to be, it
will happen.”. What is the purpose of believing those words? There is nothing
meant for us if we do not act. I would rather believe “If it is meant to be, it
is up to me” because what are you now is not because of destiny. It is because
of choosing the life that you think is the best for you and for everybody.
Yes, destiny does
exist but I must say, choice has the power to change it. In every decisions,
there are different destinies. In every choices, there is a different stories.
It is up to us to choose and we have an option if we are going to use the power
of choice.
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